From: heb_roots_chr@mail.geocities.com Date: Mon, 1 Dec 1997 23:53:21 +0000 To: Hebraic Heritage Newsgroup Subject: A Sister needs our help
To: heb_roots_chr@geocities.com From: Shannah Stirn Subject: A Sister needs our help
Dear Eddie..
I received these two letters from a friend in Spain in the past few days. Rhode has posted on the newsgroup before and she is experiencing some very real and terrible troubles. I'll let her letters speak for themselves. I am trying to help her by sending her some winter clothin for her and her daughter Tami, but it isn't enough. Prayer is not enough either... which I've been doing. Rhode needs our prayers AND some tangible help. Please, read her letters and maybe we as a body of believers can through prayer and some work, can help our sister in Spain.
I humbly give thanks for you patience and help Eddie. Feel free to edit her letters if you choose to post them.
Your sister in Yeshua, Shoshannah
> >To: Shoshannah Stirn >From: Rhode Flores <rhode@lander.es> >Subject:
Very beloved, sweet sister and friend Shannah:
Your love fills me with a very sincere and humble gratitude. These are times in which I feel a mixture of confusion, fear, uncertainty and also I feel ashamed because when you live like this, it is only natural to loose all selfassurance and confidence. I know I can't depend on my efforts or wisdom to solve any of our problems, I feel pressure by time and circumstances. I am scared of being ashamed and threatened by the owner of the apartment, of loosing everything and not knowing when or how our lives are going to get back on track.
I apologize because I am a person who is incapable of bottling up all my feelings. I cannot pretend to feel what I do not feel. My daughter, for example, is more ashamed of our situation and does not wish other people to know, so she keeps much of her suffering inside, but then she gets to a point when she cant take it any more and she breaks down completely. I let off steam little by little and that helps me keep my sanity, although it does not really solve much, but she goes half crazy with sorrow and worries and scares me. I also feel as though I can no longer be a good mother because much as I try to, with all my strength, I can no longer provide even our most basic needs.
I had two gold little crosses of the Huguenots (I no longer wear them, I wear a little gold star of David that Tami bought for my last birthday) and I went to an Evangelical bookstore where they said they might buy them. They were going to buy both and give me 5.000 pts. (about 43 dollars). Then the lady, who is German, changed her mind and only bought the largest one and gave me 3.000 (about 25 dollars). Yesterday I sold a bread toasting machine and got about 10 dollars for it, so that is what we have had to buy groceries in over a week. We are mostly eating things like rice and pasta, which go a long way. No fruit, vegetables, yogurts or many other things. I can notice the change in my body and Tami is starting to have stomach problems, so it is up to God.
I was going to sell a second PC we have, not the one I use. I am aware that if I sell it I will get very little for it, but it is getting to a point that we cant even buy food and that is critical. I never thought the Lord would allow us to reach such a, humanly speaking, desperate situation, but I can't do anything about it, very unfortunately. It is difficult to understand why out of over 4.000 e-mails not a single one can have a positive answer and none of the things I have done or can do in Madrid is going to have any positive results. We are still facing closed doors.
Yesterday Samuel del Coso visited us. As I might have mentioned, he is the representant in Spain of the International Christian Embassy Jerusalem. He has a wife and two children and he is paying for ALL his ministry out of his own pocket because the Embassy only works with people as volunteers. His car broke down and he had to pay, believe it or not, over 4.000 dollars in repair work.
***** Eddie, perhaps this is domething we as a group can help with? ....Shannah
He has a project SHALOM SEFARAD, to serve God and Israel. He wants to set up a large house in Toledo (twin city of Jerusalem and a city with a rich Jewish history) to receive Jews on their way to Israel and to help other gentiles and believers who love Yeshua and Israel, set up a shop of Israeli objects and jewelry, a travel agency, a Translations Department (that is where I come in), but as always happens, in Spain we have no money. Evangelical and Messianic projects are easy to carry out in the USA, where churches and individuals give a lot of money. In Spain the Evangelicals and Messianics are still poor people, (and when the church has money, as the church next door, they use it to make the church building more beautiful, NOT to help people. I informed the pastor next door about the fasting and prayer day in Toledo and he answered: "I cant advertise it to the church because you know I DO NOT believe in what you believe" so we really cant count with any economical help and, therefore, this project has not gone ahead because of lack of money, though it is as worthy as any in the USA and maybe more than some.
About two years ago Bridges for Peace wanted us to go to work in Israel, BUT they expected a church to pay for all our expenses!!!!! I am so amazed at all the things Messianics and others can carry out in the USA and in Spain we are just at the level of praying and fasting after years and years of careful planning. This is a very difficult country and things are going to get much worse. We are probably soon going to loose our religious liberty again (I have lived through that, of course, during Franco's regime and so has Samuel) and the job situation is every day on the news, but the Government is NOT really providing any answers. In fact, they said that in five years time things would improve. What are we supposed to live on till then? And I am not refering only to Tami and me, but to several million people who are unemployed and loosing everything, being evicted from their homes and that is why at times I am scared.
Shannah, I know God is all powerful, but like Samuel said: "Jesus did not move a finger to save his own cousin's life and John the Baptist lost his head" so who are we not to loose our lives? I confess I am scared because I have no idea how much more we are supposed to endure. I have not reached the high spiritual level in which I don't mind how much more we have to suffer because we are very tired. All I can do is continue to pray.
Please believe me, I am deeply grateful for your love, for accepting me as I am, with all my fears, uncertainties and complainst at this time. You are seeing my worse side. When I look at myself in the mirror I see a face that has aged beyond recognition, a face in which the lines of sorrow are deeply marked. I am young inside, but that outward aging is not very pleasant to live with. It makes me want to keep to myself knowing this is a world in which outward appearance is the most important thing and my daughter and I are suffering the consequences.
Tami is suffering all our miseries, plus all the problems in her studies and her mental and emotional situation is like one walking on a tight rope (how often I have felt this way!!) on one side a deep ravine that means certain death and on the other safety! Tami has no real opportunities here. She sees the opportunities in Israel and in the USA and she hurts and feels utterly frustrated with life in Spain. She can't love Spain because all she sees are closed doors, so I don't blame her for not loving this country. I am not exactly thrilled with the lack of opportunities and miseries I am suffering, though the first time I went to the USA, as a new bride, I came face to face with poverty, for the first time in my life, in the land of opportunity, so I am aware that "all that glitters is not gold" and we suffered much more discrimination in Florida than in Spain. Cuban girls would NOT play with Tami because she had fair hair and a light skin. I told them off for discriminating Tami who, after all, was in her own country and State, they only turned around and left me standing there, without answering my rebuke.
We are still awaiting a miracle. At times we pray, at others Tami says "what good is praying going to do? God knows our needs and until He decides to help us, why should I try to say anything, I no longer have any words left? It is certainly a difficult time for her and I suffer more for her than for myself, of course. I hope one day we can look back from a better position. Love you, sweet and faithful sister. I feel humble beside you, who are a wonderful and patient sister. May God bless for for being so full of love for us,
SHALOM,
Rhode
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From: Rhode Flores (rhode@lander.es) To: heb_roots_chr@geocities.com Subject: Urgent Prayer Request
Dear Eddie:
I am glad one day I came across your ministry and benefited and learned a lot. Thank you for all you do.
This is possibly the last time I will be able to write to you. I wanted to thank you once more for your loving kindness. For several years things have gone from bad to worse, until we have reached a dead end situation. As from Monday Tamara will no longer be able to go to class, and will loose a 5th year of school, we will also loose our gas (cooking and hot water), our Internet and soon the electricity, phone and no doubt the apartment will go sooner or later.
I had been selling small items I had to buy groceries and put ads to find work and to sell our second PC. No one answers my ads asking for work and a believer, from one of the Messianic churches, told me he would buy the PC and with that I planned to pay for our monthly transportation tickets, pay two pants that Tamara desperately needs (she is wearing summer pants and the weather is cold and we have had intense rains that can possibly continue), the gas and Internet because he knew how desperate our situation is. But he called this morning saying that he had spoken with a technitian and had decided NOT to buy our PC after all.
We have no way of understanding why we must loose everything, not know where we will go or what will happen to us. My daughter is suffering from emotional and mental exhaustion and has already gone through several crisis of depression. I can't fight disaster any more, so we will have to face whatever evils still lies ahead in our future. I send you my love and will continue to pray for you, as well as others. I appreciate people who have prophecied good and positive things from God for our near future, but it seems they were mistaken, though well intentioned.
Love in Yeshua,
SHALOM,
Rhode
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